How this started
You might be wearing rose-colored glasses. Your friends can tell.

Our most trusted opinions come from the people closest to us, scattered across text threads, brunch chats, and timezones. When they're up to date, they clock patterns before you do. They've been right about your last three ~almost~ somethings. Dating can be grim. It should at least be fun to talk about. So we built a place for that. No real names. Just your most-trusted people, your situationsh!ts, and the truth.

Women-founded and operated. Privacy-first. San Francisco.

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